I need to remember, that people will do what ever they want. Sometimes they are hurtful and selfish. They forgot to think of others, and only think of themselves.
Generally people are going to try and fulfil their own needs first. They do not mean to be uncaring and thoughtless.
I Need To Constantly remember that other people’s actions are Not About Me. I cannot Control other People, or how they respond/react towards me.
I am more aware these days of not Reacting to everything/everyone, and it helps to a calmer life, but also I am aware of my resentment when I believe that people “should” be behaving a Certain Way, But they don’t/can’t/won’t… This is ultimately my issue and I’m learning to sit with it.
Repeat. I Can’t Control Other People. Not, do I want to really.
As we are getting ready for Christmas and going away this year, I am struggling a bit to fit everything in, and see the people I want to see before we leave. I am asking for help with the jobs so that I don’t get overwhelmed, but also I’m finding it a bit easier to let stuff go, and not get too stressed.
What will be will be, and in the end it will all be okay.